You might remember that the widespread controversy surrounding Lena Dunham and the section of her book where she describes “a story about being a weird 7-year-old” (and what others call child molestation) began with a tweet in which she wrote off the charges as “a right-wing news story.” Sure, it was in an article about Dunham in National Review that Kevin D. Williamson quoted the most disturbing passages from Dunham’s book verbatim — passages that the mainstream media overlooked completely.
As Twitchy demonstrated, it wasn’t only right-wingers but a wide range of people who found the revelations disturbing. “I need @lenadunham to understand that it’s not just straight white conservative men that are disgusted by these latest revelations,” wrote an African-American attorney. “How are you a feminist if you are normalizing the fact that you molested your little sister?” asked another young woman.
So, guess who has arrived to blame right-wingers for ignoring the words of Dunham’s younger sister Grace? It’s Cosmopolitan senior political writer and Feministe blogger Jill Filipovic, who even takes feminists to task.
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529348855318732800
Time for school.
@jillfilipovic it's a well held belief in sexual abuse advocacy that the victim cannot give consent or say what was done was okay.
— jaded barves guy (@fjrabon) November 3, 2014
@JillFilipovic not saying what Lena did was or wasn't sexual abuse, but most victims of sibling sexual abuse deny harm.
— jaded barves guy (@fjrabon) November 3, 2014
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529349912983777280
Who’s ignoring her? Dunham tweeted that “I wish my sister wasn’t laughing so hard” — so it’s all good, right?
@JillFilipovic Aw, u poor misguided dolt. No one in their right mind sides w/ Lena or you. Feminist/ Right wingers nothing to do with it.
— Jimni27 (@jimni27) November 3, 2014
.@JillFilipovic It sucks she's expected to bail her sister out. Regardless what Grace says/feels, Lena's actions raise major red flags
— SDFeminist (@RCSDFeminist) November 3, 2014
https://twitter.com/AliMarMas/status/529353488674074624
https://twitter.com/AliMarMas/status/529353568856580096
.@JillFilipovic I don't think Lena = Woody Allen but I don't understand why we are defending this? Cause she's a spokesperson for @PPact ??
— SDFeminist (@RCSDFeminist) November 3, 2014
https://twitter.com/AliMarMas/status/529354566371143680
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529355011583913985
https://twitter.com/AliMarMas/status/529355255830822912
Again, check Dunham’s original tweets, where she talks about having “looked at another little kid’s vagina.” The book itself recounts far more than “looking.”
@JillFilipovic @AliMarMas But it wasn't just a curious touch… I understand kids are curious and sexual but there was more to it than that
— SDFeminist (@RCSDFeminist) November 3, 2014
Time to normalize some behaviors.
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529356157199343617
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529356246533804033
https://twitter.com/AliMarMas/status/529357958392872962
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529359140628746240
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529359411421401089
@JillFilipovic @AliMarMas I understand Lena was trying to make a joke about molesting her sister, but given her behavior, I'm not laughing
— SDFeminist (@RCSDFeminist) November 3, 2014
Let it be noted for the record that Filipovic and Dunham, and not the “far-right,” think molestation jokes are funny and tongue-in-cheek.
https://twitter.com/AliMarMas/status/529359532007653378
@JillFilipovic @AliMarMas @EmilyFrancesSD Just stop. You don't need to condemn her, but attempting to rationalize this isn't helping…
— Nathan Whittaker (@n8inSLC) November 3, 2014
https://twitter.com/andreaTshang/status/529362228898955265
.@JillFilipovic Using Grace as a scapegoat for Lena Dunham's predatory actions is not only cowardly, but the classic tactic of an abuser
— Yukio Strachan (@boldandworthy) November 3, 2014
.@JillFilipovic If you really supported Grace you would validated her violation; not the tactics used to clear the person who violated her.
— Yukio Strachan (@boldandworthy) November 3, 2014
.@JillFilipovic Using Grace's name as a shield is shameful for a feminist that's supposed to empower women, not sacrifice them for profit
— Yukio Strachan (@boldandworthy) November 3, 2014
https://twitter.com/Mombassa1995/status/529364786379644929
https://twitter.com/Mombassa1995/status/529365498094317568
@JillFilipovic I'm more concerned with how Lena essentially brushed off the behavior as normal, when it's not. Grace's words do count for
— ACAB (@elenacleaves) November 3, 2014
@JillFilipovic something, but they do not justify Lena's actions. It may not have been sexual, but was clearly more than innocent curiosity.
— ACAB (@elenacleaves) November 3, 2014
@JillFilipovic Did Grace consent to or understand what was being done to her by her sister? Good luck trying to defend that.
— Farbrook (@dutchindian) November 3, 2014
Well, that didn’t produce the expected response. Back to the safer waters of bashing right-wingers who dared quote directly from Dunham’s book.
https://twitter.com/JillFilipovic/status/529370475617857536
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